Household Employer Guide: Are You One, and What It Means
You're a household employer if you pay a nanny, housekeeper, or caregiver more than $3,000 in a calendar year, or more than $1,000 in any single 3-month period — either one alone is enough under IRS Publication 926. That mostly means Social Security and Medicare taxes, and usually a federal unemployment tax and an EIN.
What makes you a household employer
The IRS test is about money, not job title. If you pay someone $3,000 or more in a calendar year to work in your home, or more than $1,000 in any single 3-month period, you're a household employer for that worker — even if they also work for other families, even if you paid in cash or Venmo, and even if nobody signed a formal contract.
This applies whether the person is a:
- Nanny or babysitter with a regular schedule
- Housekeeper or house cleaner
- Home health aide or caregiver
- Personal assistant, cook, or gardener who works in your home
Not sure where you land? Take the free 15-second eligibility check — it runs the same math instantly, no sign-up.
What household employer status actually requires
Once you cross the threshold, a few things typically follow:
- Withhold and pay Social Security and Medicare (FICA) — 7.65% from the employee's pay, matched by another 7.65% from you
- Pay federal unemployment tax (FUTA) — usually 0.6% of the first $7,000 in wages, once you've paid $1,000+ in any calendar quarter
- Get a federal EIN so you can report these taxes under your household, not your Social Security number
- File Schedule H with your federal tax return, and give your employee a W-2 by January 31
- Check your state — many states have their own unemployment tax, and some require paid leave, workers' comp, or minimum wage rules specific to household employees
None of this requires a $50/month payroll company. It requires knowing the numbers and doing a few things on time.
What you're not required to do
A few common misconceptions worth clearing up:
- You don't have to withhold federal income tax unless your employee asks you to — Social Security and Medicare are required, income tax withholding is optional
- You don't file quarterly tax returns like a business — most household employer taxes are reported once a year, with Schedule H
- You don't need a business bank account, a business name, or a corporate structure — you're an employer as a person, using your own Social Security number for your own taxes and an EIN just for household employment
What happens if you skip this
Paying under the table doesn't remove the requirement — it just delays it. If the IRS or your state catches up later, you can owe back taxes, penalties, and interest, and your employee misses out on Social Security and unemployment credit for work they actually did.
If you've already been paying someone without doing this, the fix isn't to panic — it's to start now and handle the catch-up separately. See our catch-up payroll guide for how that usually works.
Frequently asked questions
Does it matter if my nanny also works for another family?
No — each household that pays $3,000+/year or $1,000+/quarter is a separate household employer, regardless of what the worker earns elsewhere.
What if I only need occasional help?
Occasional, irregular help can still cross the threshold if the dollar amount adds up. The test is about total pay in the period, not how many hours per week.
Is a household employer the same as a small business?
No. You file as an individual with a Schedule H attached to your regular Form 1040 — you don't need a business entity.
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This guide is general information, not tax or legal advice. Rules vary by state and change over time — confirm anything specific to your situation with a licensed professional or your state's labor department.